La "fuerza" que nos acecha | Aristotelis Vathis | TEDxDeree ACG

Las expectativas rígidas que obligan a los niños a volverse emocionalmente cerrados pueden dañar la salud mental y las relaciones de los hombres. La charla relaciona el estoicismo masculino con la vergüenza ante la vulnerabilidad, el retraso en pedir ayuda y la depresión oculta. Menciona que la tasa de suicidio masculino es de dos a cuatro veces superior a la femenina a nivel mundial. Propone enfoques prácticos para la terapia y redefinir la fuerza como apertura y comunicación.

• Normas de masculinidad estoica y salud mental masculina
• Vergüenza ante la vulnerabilidad y evitación de la ayuda
• Educación emocional para niños y terapia práctica

The talk is about the rigid societal expectations to act as an "iron box," forcing boys from a young age to adopt a mold of stoic, unemotional strength that severely harms their mental health and relationships. Because men are conditioned to equate vulnerability with shame, they frequently ignore warning signs, avoid seeking help, and suffer from hidden depression—contributing to a male suicide rate two to four times higher than women globally. This emotional armor not only isolates men from the warmth and communication necessary for long-term relationships, but it also strips away their psychological flexibility. To dismantle this harmful script, the talk calls for reframing therapy around practical functioning, teaching emotional literacy to young boys, and redefining heroism as the courage to be present, communicative, and human rather than permanently silent. Aristotle Vathis, MD, MSc, ECP is a psychiatrist and psychotherapist based in Athens, Greece, with training at the National and Kapodistrian University of Athens Medical School and a psychiatric residency at the Aiginiteion University Hospital. Holding the European Certificate of Psychotherapy (ECP) and trained in Systemic Psychotherapy, he brings deep clinical expertise in EMDR and trauma therapy — drawing on psychiatry, psychotherapy, and the psychological and social sciences to treat the whole person behind every diagnosis, always through an individualized lens. He challenges the deep-rooted stigmas that keep people from seeking mental health support, championing a more open and barrier-free approach to mental wellbeing. As the founder of www.therapia.gr and a frequent voice in Greek media, he is committed to making mental health knowledge accessible to everyone — especially those who have been taught to suffer in silence. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx