Les conversations qui pourraient nous changer | Cecilia Puente | TEDxMacatawa

Avant de parler, beaucoup de personnes évaluent discrètement ce qui est sans risque à dire, et dans un débat, elles cherchent souvent à gagner plutôt qu'à comprendre. Dans cette intervention TEDxMacatawa, la lycéenne Cecilia Puente soutient que les conversations importantes exigent trois risques : se faire entendre, accepter d'avoir tort et accepter de changer. S'appuyant sur la notion grecque ancienne de parrhesia, elle montre comment le courage, la curiosité et l'ouverture peuvent transformer le désaccord en découverte. La présentation a été donnée lors d'un événement TEDx organisé de manière indépendante.

• Pourquoi on se retient souvent de parler et on débat pour gagner
• Trois risques : être entendu, avoir tort, changer
• La notion grecque ancienne de parrhesia

Before we speak, most of us quietly calculate what’s safe to say, and when we do speak, we argue to win. Cecilia Puente makes the case that conversations that matter ask us to take three risks: being heard, being wrong, and being changed. Drawing on the ancient Greek idea of parrhesia, she shows how courage, curiosity, and openness can turn disagreement into discovery. Cecilia Puente is a high school junior, writer, and youth leader interested in how we communicate across differences. She has shared her writing and ideas through essays, competitions, and public forums. Through programs at Georgetown, Harvard, and the University of Chicago, she has studied courageous discourse, public speaking, debate, and approaches to building connected communities. She has carried these experiences into national youth boards and civic leadership initiatives, and is creating opportunities for dialogue in her community. Cecilia also mentors younger students and studied ballet for over a decade. She is particularly interested in dialogue and polarization. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx