Faut-il coucher avec son ex ?

La question de savoir s'il faut avoir des relations sexuelles avec un ancien partenaire est abordée par Dr. Lindsey Doe dans un épisode de Sexplanations. Sont évoqués les avantages possibles et les facteurs de risque du sexe après une rupture, ce que disent les recherches citées, plusieurs points de vue et les expériences personnelles de l'animatrice. La vidéo invite à ne pas associer de honte à cette décision et à rester curieux.

• Avantages possibles et facteurs de risque du sexe après une rupture
• Présentation de ce que disent les recherches citées
• Plusieurs points de vue et expériences personnelles de l'animatrice

I've been working on this episode for over six months, researching and waiting, and thinking and laughing. "Should" questions or statements are a very powerful way we organize our judgment of ourselves and others, a way of saying, there's shame if you don't behave the way I think you /should/. I don't like them. And I don't like being on the receiving end. I judge too. I catch myself in hypocrisy. Don't yuck, someone else yum. But there I am poking holes in the lifestyle or personal choices of others like I'm some sort of all-knowing guru of existence. I'm not. There isn't a should about whether or not you have sex with your ex. Unlikely that anything applies to everyone or all of time and place. Life is too diverse for a system of shoulds and musts. I think. So if I or you or someone else is sleeping with an ex or isn't -- all I ask is that you not pack shame onto that decision and stay curious. Support Sexplanations by becoming a sexpla(i)naut: https://patreon.com/sexplanations Chapters: 00:00 Intro 01:09 Benefits and risk factors of breakup sex 02:45 What does the research say? 03:23 Perspectives 04:07 My experiences with breakup sex 04:28 Takeaways 06:21 Bloopers Videos: Decisions, Decisions: How to Make Hard Choices! (ft. Dr. Lindsey Doe!) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lxWSGwJzDlY How to Break Up with Someone the RIGHT Way (ft. Dr. Lindsey Doe!) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NO_PyUrk1zs Break Up First Aid Kit https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wS1_K8JcZT0 Sources: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1474704920936916 https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0265407509351035 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22946958/ https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-018-1268-6 https://www.elitedaily.com/p/is-having-sex-with-your-ex-unhealthy-a-new-study-makes-a-surprising-discovery-12612276 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3115386/ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28485695/ https://www.forbes.com/advisor/legal/divorce/divorce-statistics/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10001274/ https://www.bustle.com/wellness/things-no-one-tells-you-about-sex-with-your-ex https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1474704920936916