मैं असफलताओं से प्यार क्यों करता हूँ? | R. Deepak S.K. | TEDxSGU

भारत में शिक्षा अक्सर अंक, परीक्षा और नौकरी पर केंद्रित रहती है, जबकि जीवन की रुकावटों से निपटना सिखाने पर कम ध्यान दिया जाता है। TEDxSGU की इस वार्ता में R. Deepak S.K. कहते हैं कि शांति और कृतज्ञता सफलता के बाद का इनाम नहीं, बल्कि उसकी ओर बढ़ने की नींव हो सकती हैं। वे बताते हैं कि जो हमारे नियंत्रण में है और जो नहीं है, उसमें फर्क समझने से अतीत और दूसरों की राय का बोझ कम किया जा सकता है। वार्ता में शैक्षणिक दबाव, बेरोज़गारी, आर्थिक तनाव और भारत में आत्महत्या की गंभीर चुनौती का भी ज़िक्र है।

• असफलता से निपटना शायद ही सिखाया जाता है
• नियंत्रण में और नियंत्रण से बाहर की चीज़ों में फर्क
• सोच-समझकर लिए गए जोखिम और जाने-माने भारतीय खिलाड़ियों के सफर

In India, we teach young people how to score marks, crack exams, and land jobs. But what we rarely teach them is how to deal with life when things don’t go as planned. That silence comes at a cost. India continues to face the serious challenge of suicide, with academic pressure, unemployment, financial stress, and personal struggles among the concerns affecting people’s lives. This talk offers a more human way of looking at life. Peace and gratitude shouldn’t be things we wait to experience after achieving success; they are foundations that help us navigate life and pursue success with greater clarity. By learning to distinguish between what is entirely within our control, what we can partly influence, and what lies beyond our control, we can focus our energy where it matters most and learn to let go of the past and the weight of other people’s opinions. Drawing inspiration from the journeys of MS Dhoni, Thalapathy Vijay, Rohit Sharma, Virat Kohli, and Sanju Samson, this talk explores why failure is rarely the end, how calculated risks can lead to extraordinary achievements, and why everyone moves forward on their own timeline. If you’re struggling right now, remember this: you are not behind in life, your failures do not define you, and you are not alone. Sometimes, what feels like the end of your journey is simply the beginning of a new chapter. R. Deepak S.K. is an Author, Management and Leadership Expert, AI Education Innovator, Career Counsellor and Personal Development Mentor. A Government of India Certified Management Expert, he has authored 33 books covering personal development, career, leadership, mindset, education and youth development. His professional journey reflects continuous learning, reinvention and leadership growth, including contributing to business growth from ₹0 to ₹250+ crore and working with 250+ employees. He has trained 2,00,000+ students in Artificial Intelligence and engaged with leading IIMs, IITs and government ecosystems on education, AI, skills and youth development. His work focuses on empowering individuals through learning, leadership, career guidance and future-ready skills. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx