क्या आप प्रेरित महसूस करते हैं या दबाव में? | Pedro Costa | TEDxEscola Concept Ribeirão Preto

पेड्रो कोस्टा की TEDxEscola Concept Ribeirão Preto वार्ता किशोरावस्था में शैक्षणिक दबाव और सफलता की खोज पर केंद्रित है। वक्ता बताते हैं कि दूसरों से तुलना एक चुपचाप तनाव और असुरक्षा का स्रोत कैसे बन सकती है, और इसके लिए फूटते गुब्बारे की उपमा देते हैं। वे अमेरिकन साइकोलॉजिकल एसोसिएशन के आँकड़ों का हवाला देते हैं। साथ ही वे उच्च उपलब्धि वाले परिवार में बड़े होने का अपना अनुभव साझा करते हैं।

• किशोरावस्था में शैक्षणिक दबाव और तुलना
• अमेरिकन साइकोलॉजिकल एसोसिएशन के आँकड़े
• आत्म-विकास के माध्यम से सफलता की नई परिभाषा

In this TEDx presentation, Pedro Costa addresses academic pressure and the pursuit of success during adolescence, reflecting on how comparison with others can become a silent source of stress and insecurity. The speaker uses the metaphor of a popping balloon to illustrate the mind's limits under pressure and highlights data from the American Psychological Association showing that nearly six out of ten teenagers cite academic performance as their primary source of anxiety. He also shares his personal experience growing up in a high-achieving family which led him to question whether he was enough or if he would disappoint his loved ones, until he realized that all his family truly cared about was his happiness. Costa invites the audience to redefine success by transforming pressure into self-development, shifting the focus from comparing himself with others to comparing himself with his past self. He emphasizes that a sibling's success is not one's own failure and that parents' achievements should not set a rigid benchmark for their children. Grade 9 student at Escola Concept Ribeirão Preto This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx