हर भूमिका के पीछे की महिला: हम कौन हैं, यह याद रखना | डॉ. भाग्यश्री लहाने | TEDxSGU

TEDxSGU के इस भाषण में कंसल्टेंट फिजिशियन और इंटेंसिविस्ट डॉ. भाग्यश्री लहाने उन भूमिकाओं पर बात करती हैं जो महिलाएं अक्सर निभाती हैं, जैसे डॉक्टर, मां, बेटी, पत्नी, नेता और देखभाल करने वाली। वे चिकित्सा प्रशिक्षण, गंभीर देखभाल, मातृत्व और COVID-19 महामारी के दौरान काम के अपने अनुभव साझा करती हैं। भाषण इस सवाल को उठाता है कि इन भूमिकाओं से परे व्यक्तिगत पहचान कहां है। इसमें जिम्मेदारियां छोड़ने की नहीं, बल्कि अपने सपनों और ज़रूरतों के लिए भी जगह बनाने की बात कही गई है।

• घर और काम में कई भूमिकाओं का संतुलन
• चिकित्सा प्रशिक्षण, गंभीर देखभाल और महामारी
• सीमाएं, आत्म-जागरूकता और व्यक्तिगत पहचान

Who are we when nobody needs anything from us? As women, we often become experts at fulfilling multiple roles- as doctors, mothers, daughters, wives, leaders, and caregivers. We learn to manage responsibilities, meet expectations, and keep moving forward, even when we are exhausted. But somewhere along the way, we may begin to confuse who we are with everything we do for others. In this deeply personal and thought-provoking talk, Dr. Bhagyashri reflects on her journey through medical training, critical care, motherhood, and the extraordinary challenges of working during the COVID-19 pandemic. These experiences led her to confront an important question: Where is the woman behind all these roles? Through the powerful idea of choosing herself too, she explores the hidden weight of responsibility, the emotional burden of always being the strong one, and the importance of boundaries, self-awareness, and personal identity. This talk is not about abandoning responsibilities or caring less for others. It is about recognising that our own dreams, needs, and individuality deserve space alongside the people we love. Because being needed is not the same as being fulfilled, and surviving is not the same as truly living. Perhaps the most courageous question we can ask ourselves is not, “What does everyone need me to be?” but “Who am I beyond my roles?” Dr. Bhagyashri Lahane is a Consultant Physician and Intensivist with over nine years of experience in clinical medicine and critical care. She holds an MBBS, MD in Medicine and IDCCM and is the Founder & Director of Vitthal Hospital, Pune, where she combines clinical expertise with healthcare leadership and hospital administration. Beyond medicine, she actively contributes to initiatives focused on girls’ education, confidence-building and empowerment. Her journey across medicine, leadership, teaching and social initiatives has shaped her perspective on women, identity and self-belief. Her TEDx theme, “Fight for My Own Identity,” explores the courage to define oneself beyond professional roles, responsibilities and societal expectations. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx