みんなが話し、誰も聞かない | デビッド・ヴァンダーモレン | TEDxMacatawa

全員が話し、誰も聞いていない会話を表す言葉が anecdoche です。TEDxMacatawa でのこの講演で、デビッド・ヴァンダーモレンは、人が本当に聞くことが難しい理由と、雑音を断ち切る5つの行動を紹介しています。彼は、傾聴は柔らかいスキルではなく、学ぶことができるパワースキルだと主張します。講演者は Barry-Wehmiller の Learning Sensei として、長年にわたり傾聴を教えてきました。

• 本当に聞くことが難しい理由
• 雑音を断ち切る5つの行動
• 学習によって身につくリーダーシップ・スキルとしての傾聴

There’s a word for a conversation where everyone talks and nobody listens: anecdoche. Drawing on decades of teaching listening and his own unlikely journey to learning it, David VanderMolen explains why we struggle to truly listen and walks through five behaviors that cut through the noise. Listening, he argues, isn’t a soft skill. It’s a power skill. Most leadership training teaches you how to command a room. David VanderMolen teaches you how to go quiet in one. As a Learning Sensei at Barry-Wehmiller, he co-founded the company’s university and created a leadership and listening curriculum taught in five languages worldwide, reaching over 14,000 people. It’s still being taught. He continues that work at Inspired 2 Change, the West Michigan change agency he founded, built on one idea: changed people change companies. He’s spent 35 years proving that listening—the skill everyone assumes is intuitive and passive—is learned, and it’s the most active thing a leader does. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx