慰めか対立か、思いやりの形 | Thisakya Goonasekara | TEDxGC Negombo Youth

このTEDxGC Negombo Youthの講演は、特にミスをした後に、なぜ率直さよりも安心を求めてしまうのかを問いかけます。話し手は生徒会長(Head Girl)として、時には友人にも率直に伝える必要があったという経験を振り返り、大切な人と向き合うことの代償について語ります。自分を動揺させてくれる人こそ、最も気にかけてくれている人だと述べています。また、AIは私たちが選んで語った話の一面しか聞かないため、逃げ場になりやすいという点も取り上げています。

• 率直な意見より安心を求めてしまう理由
• 生徒会長としての率直に話した経験
• AIが率直な指摘を避ける場になり得ること

In my talk, I explore why we so often look for reassurance instead of honesty, especially after we’ve made a mistake. As Head Girl, I’ve had to be the person who speaks up, sometimes even with my own friends, and I’ve learned how much it can cost to confront someone you care about. That’s exactly why I believe the people who are willing to upset us are often the ones who care about us the most. I also look at how AI has become an easy place to hide, because it only ever hears the version of the story we choose to tell. Kindness as comfort or confrontation This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx