なぜ行き詰まりを感じるのか、そしてどう変えるか | Michael Davis | TEDxColumbiana

キャリアの停滞、繰り返される人間関係のパターン、答えを持っていたのに発言できなかった会議などは、多くの場合自分自身の問題だと考えられがちです。TEDxColumbianaでの講演で、Michael Davisは、原因は多くの場合、つらい瞬間に身につけ、一度も疑問を持たなかった「台本」にあると主張しています。彼は自身の障害を、一年生の教室にあったぐらつく机までさかのぼって語ります。講演では、自己認識だけでは制限的な信念を断ち切れない理由と、「自分の何が悪いのか」の代わりに問うべき質問が紹介されています。

• 行き詰まりは個人の欠点より、身につけた台本に関係することが多い
• 講演者は自身の障害を小学一年生の教室にまで遡る
• 自己認識だけでは制限的な信念は壊れない

Most of us have a place where we keep hitting the same obstacle, whether it's a career that stalls, a relationship pattern that repeats, or a meeting where we had the answer and said nothing. We assume the problem is us. Michael Davis disagrees. He says, “You're not stuck, you're scripted.” In this talk, he traces his own obstacle back to a wobbly desk in a first-grade classroom and shows why feeling stuck is rarely about who you are. It comes from a script you picked up in a painful moment and never questioned. You'll find out why self-awareness alone doesn't break a limiting belief, and the question to ask instead of "What's wrong with me?" Michael Davis is a leading authority on storytelling for impact and influence, known for rewriting the scripts that run the room. Michael Davis works with leaders and sales professionals to speak in a way that earns trust and drives action. During his financial planning career, he saw a pattern. Smart people lost opportunities, not because they lacked expertise, but because their messages didn’t connect. He built a coaching and speaking business to solve that problem. As the founder of SpeakingCPR and a TEDx coach, he’s helped clients shape talks and presentations that have reached more than 6 million views. His work focuses on one core idea: The story you tell yourself, the story your audience believes, and the story you share must align. When they do, people listen. They trust you. They act. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx